Updated: Aug 19

Our marriage at the 20-year mark looked okay on the outside but inside there was an issue that I had not had the courage to address. A boundary against angry words. I was so fearful of rejection I had let it go year after year. Sure, we had had some great times, but I found myself tip toeing around to avoid disharmony for the kids’ sake. But unresolved conflict in a family passes down from generation to generation. God was on my case to begin to stand tall as a godly woman, wife and mother for a peaceful and harmonious home.

Once I felt this was a God thing, next I had to examine the cost to me and the family to try to bring change. No one likes change and bringing t