Updated: Aug 10

Last time I was talking about better relationships through better communication by extending grace. This time, it’s all about boundaries. In other words, saying ‘yes’ or saying ‘no’. I agree this is hard to do but it means that you care about yourself as well as caring for the other person, in any relationship you have. Being good at communicating is not about only being gracious to others, it’s also about being gracious to yourself which includes saying ‘no’ at times when you need to. Jesus himself described it in this way:

‘But let your ‘Yes’ be ‘Yes,’ and your ‘No,’ ‘No.’ For whatever is more than these is from the evil one.’ Matthew 5:37NKJV

It’s pretty powerful that Jesus wants us to be firm and confident about what we say yes to and what we say no to. And that if we are not obeying this then we are under attack from the enemy of our soul. If you s